Hi! Welcome -
I’m Danielle Facchine

I spent SO much of my adult life in shame, fear, loneliness, abandonment, and pain because of my belief that I wasn’t good enough single (let’s be honest - I felt like I wasn’t good enough, period). I felt behind - like the only way my friends would see me as “equal” is if I had what they had - the husband, house, kids. 

I constantly wondered what people thought about me:

  • Do they talk about me behind my back?

  • Are they judging me every time I said “no” when they asked if I was seeing anyone?

  • Did they really mean to insinuate that I’m getting old and time is running out to have kids?

  • Did they really just downplay all the hard work I’ve done on myself by telling me that enough was enough, and it’s time to [insert societal expectation here]?

I’m an 80s baby and a 90s kid, so I get that I grew up in a society that said women “should do this/be that by [x] age” so it wasn’t necessarily their fault for projecting these things onto me. But damn.

For so long (too long!) I believed them. I felt the shame and embarrassment; I swam in the depths of them. I hid myself away, and when I couldn’t avoid the wedding or event invites, I showed up as best as I could but still felt like a loser with a capital L for being there by myself (because fun fact about getting older is that it’s also tougher to make new friends).

(Let’s also note here - I was always elated for my friends when they hit those big relationship and family milestones! Reminder that being envious of that or feeling shame around not having it/attending events stag is much different than not being happy for the people you love and care about.)

I felt like I lost out on so much of my life because I spent it in two ways:

Desperately clinging to toxic relationships because it felt better than being alone.

Keeping myself from absolutely magical and expansive experiences because I was too scared or embarrassed or ashamed to do things by myself.

I used to regret it and felt like I wasted so much of my life wishing and wanting and hiding, and caring too much about what other people thought about me, instead of focusing on what how they made me feel or whether or not I wanted them in my life.

Can you relate?

I know I’m not alone here, and please know I SEE you. If you’re still feeling this way - that’s ok! It literally took me over 15 years to figure all of this out.

But you don’t have to wait that long.

The glow up is REAL, and I want to be your tour guide as you quantum leap timelines and streamline your healing to get to the place you so wildly deserve: freedom.

I no longer regret a single moment in my life because it created the person I am today, and this is the person who will guide you to getting “here”, faster, and with more love and compassion, supporting you through the shame and guilt.

We’ll get there together.